The only way to change your story is to change what you believe about yourself. Every time you change the main character of your story, the whole story changes to adapt to the new main character.
A soul mate is not a person who comes into your life and loves you the way you want to be loved. Rather a soul mate will often love you the way you need to be loved.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did so.
Everything will work out in the end. If it’s not working out, it’s not the end.